Tuesday, August 4, 2009

REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIP DISSOLVES

REASONS FOR BREAKAGES IN RELATIONSHIP.

So many factors/reasons can be responsible for any breakages in relationship.
Firstly: Do you understand by the word relationship?
Relation: This is a connection between two or more
Ship : A large boat used for carrying people or goods from here I can put ‘relationship’ demands the contribution of both parties, and if a party is lagging behind then there can’t be a good and perfect relationship
WHY RELATIONSHIP GETS DISSOLVED
Here are the reasons or things that may cause a good or upcoming relationship to break or dissolve
• Distance: To be frank distance is one of the reasons why relationship collapse, now a days at the first instance, you are engraved with the love at ‘first sight” but as soon as he / she depart and you get to communicate on phone, the love get diminishing, get it or leave it that is the bitter truth.
• Communication: When there is no proper and good communication between both parties the established or upcoming relationship begins to go dim,
Listen at this point, communication is not only limited to the male part, because all what our female believe is that the communication {calling} should be done by the male, when one party is weak then there is no assurance for a good and suitable relationship.
Communication is very important in relationship and communication I am pointing at is not only restricted to calling g on phone but understanding each other
• Genuine Love: Yes you might be wondering what do I do still mean by that yes , yes you might be in a relationship all because he or she is rich beautiful or handsome, her parent or his parents might be rich she is clean and so other physical looks or appearance s
Listen this also are good but what matter most is the true love, forget about the way he/she looks and still think, am I still in love with him/her?
• Rumor: Very good, this had actually splitted many relationships today, rumor is information that is passed from one person to another and which may not be true. Especially about someone’s personal life.
This is one of the reasons why I was emphasizing more on communication, when you have a good communication nobody can pass fake and untrue information about you u to the second party and he/ she will believe it is true, but when there is no good and solid communication between you before, then it is very easy to be cheated by those that carry fake rumors.
• Age: can also bring stoppage to your existing relationship, people do say “Age doesn’t matter but I stand to declare that they are saying that to have what they need from the relationship which pre-marital sex is.
Age is a crucial thing one must consider in any relationship that will work {you understand more of this in a book of mine titled “how old is old”} Let me drop my pen here, but remember relationship I meant to enjoy and not to endure, so guide against all this tasked above and I can assure you a peaceful and lovely relationship, where you can really enjoy and not endure it.

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